Wednesday, March 14, 2018

The year and my new life

                                                        : New year 2018:
It all started from a year ago, 22 April 2017, the beginning of all these stories,I have not written for a while because I am busy with new jobs and taking care of the child, he turns 12 years old and begins to mature, I must be more careful and give more attention.
     It's been nearly a year since I stopped to write, while analyzing my personal life and a friend who is very close to me,,All is still the same, here I can learn more from life around, from the drama of life, honesty, sincerity, lies, manipulation, all I learned, all that there is also I feel and I experienced behind the events that hit one of my close friends.
    This is a lesson that does not enter the classroom, Call it my friend's initials (K) a widow has a daughter that she got from her first deceased husband, she's a good mother and wife, a good friend, yeah even though she has a dark past, but I know everyone is born with the times, and maybe it's one of our way of life as a human being.
  Beginning on April 22, 2017, I remember the incident, when I invited three of my work colleagues just to discuss meeting about work and we did my house to be more comfortable, my office companions consisted of two men and two women, and K this is not one of them, I call him my house just to help me prepare a meal for my office friends.And that day we got together, I introduced this K to my office friends, we chatted on the sidelines discussing our office work, even after we had finished go to a karaoke club, short story, two days after that, my friend the K came back to my house and tell me that shocked me,
     He told me one of my office friends, his initials (R) contacted him and asked him out for a date, the R was one of my boyfriends at the office, and I did not at all think he could call K, and I never gave a phone no. the K,,, but ahhh I think it's fair  ,, if the R is interested in the K, because the K is fairly beautiful and good women, Their story is a relationship, and I hear they are seriosa and this guy wants to get married quickly, because he thinks he is embarrassed by the neighbors around, with the presence of the R who almost every night to stay at his house while they are not married, And short story of them held a marriage (siri) that I know can only be done by a Muslim,
    I understand the situation in this, because as a single woman and there is a man we think is good, getting married is the best way, why not, but I had time to ask and advise as a friend,
  K are you sure you want to marry him,he said yes, while I know that R is a Catholic and a Muslim, and I'm sure this R family will not approve of their relationship, but K does not respond to what I'm talking about, unbeknownst to me I finally heard that they married , even from the time they married I've rarely seen R working again in my place,
   I often see them together, I am happy to see their togetherness and I could say to K, maybe he is the last guy for you I see you are happy, I am grateful, but after some last boss K came to my house and told me otherwise.
She told me about all her husband's behavior that I had seen so far, he was a selfish, jealous man and sometimes his jealousy did not make sense, like, this K hides another man in the bed room, at home, and I think it's impossible, because I know that she  house is not that big and it is very difficult to hide others in the house,of all the stories told, I am a fool even feels weird and as if there is something deliberately made-up by her husband, as if he hide something or want something, and need to know the R is staying and settled in the house of the K, which she get from the deceased her first husband,
   it turns out what I had been thinking was true, the R is a very clever man and with his age almost 11 years away the same K , he is a single man but not yet officially divorced his first wife, and he leave just like that wife and her child, and he lived temporarily at her mother's house, and by the time she met the K, his thought this K was an innocent woman who had just lost her husband and surely she had money, home, because I knew her ex husband K is a Big boss,
   Let's discuss about the life of k, why I prefer to tell her life, because I as a friend and as a human being was amazed with the fortitude and goodness he has been,
clear here sir a clever man, a liar and we do not know what he means, he's always been looking for alsan menceburui the k, think of this K is a cheap woman, and bis whenever K go to cheat with other men, even the behavior of the R is not hesitate to curse the K in front of people because alsan the K flirty with other men, ahhh I know the K is indeed an attractive woman even without having to dress up,,,,
  but what I know is that she is a woman who respects her husband and all her alleged accusations are not true at all, her husband always begins a distracted encounter with unreasonable excuses, and after investigation,  cheating husband pretends to go every day looking for work but it turns out just to meet other women, and more to my surprise, the lady said she was her old boyfriend they had been in a relationship for about 10 years, hmmmm
 anyway I become more interested in the story of the k, and in the end I want to help her by following her husband and until I can meet and speak directly with the woman's husband's affair,
   I managed to talk a lot with the woman, who apparently the woman is much older than the k, but maybe a rich woman, and finally we told a lot about the R ,, and she said, she still loves the R and they have a relationship for 10 years, and more to my surprise again, all this time in knowing the R who had an affair with the K of him, while while the R is in a difficult life situation this woman initials C.she who helped all the nations and needs of this R , and apparently this woman is also a victim of love lies from the R,
   and the c know that the R is married to the k, what makes me surprised, there are still women today can make sacrifices have been fooled, and still love him, okay in this problem maybe I do not understand, and more strange again this C asking to tell R to tell them about their relationship to K, and C asks that R is allowed to connect with him further, I said it's something crazy,,, will continue this story tomorrow morning because today I have little to do ,, the lesson of all this I take is we can not trust anyone including girlfriend, husband and hypocritical humans who as if they appear to help but actually just become a virus in our life, this story is still long i will write again tomorrow, have nice blessed time my lovely all friend