Love letter

                           "Love letters disappointment"

Maybe when we are disappointed, hurt, very little for us women using logic, we usethe more women feeling, feeling wounded and at that time seemed only hurt ourselvesin this world, and without consideration for the feelings that we often blame that our spouse is at fault, when we hurt, disappointed, all his kindness as if lost, Like a rainy day that is dry enough soil wet year,
     But we can still try something that could be better without hurting each other, it was a letter of disappointment.
   You are dear,,,
     regardless of the love that I have for you and we are committed relationship, there are things that need to tell, I want to bring up matters that are still up is because the desire to finish it and to be more loving,Here I do a disservice both of us to act very sweet and understanding right after you admitted your infidelity, I'm glad you told me, but part of me troubled, not only by anger you, but also your affair to her friend that he should refused and told my best friend,who always told me to keep smiling and not taking the risk not to reveal to you my anger, I become overly anxious about myself, and I would rather be criticized and yelled at since the incident.I love you so much and I need to devote what is going on inside me.
      Part of me want to say this and never get the chance, "Why, you stupid bastard, heart-how could you do that, especially with my best friend!" I'm not an angel as long as this sense pretending I showed, in fact, I never really trust the idea of ​​how you sangantlonely and forced to do it, Basic rotten, and you did not consider how I feel at all,
  At the same time, I can see that you are a human who can make mistakes, I forgive you, I want to love you, and I also love our life together, I wish we could understand each other even better again and move forward of this, when you or I are not happy with something in our relationship, we need to talk, Let's make our relationship better than ever..__________

   Maybe we corresponded with coupled logic minded, many advantages, we will feel a bit relieved for having devoted all feelings, anger without hurting her feelings, but like I said earlier, with the softness of people who betrayed us will get hurt, feel pain behind the softness.Can not deny that I am here as a woman, that can be said is never successful in love affairs, where I asked what was wrong without realizing I often blame fate, even I never considers God is not fair to me, but at the moment I try to correct myself itself, why and what of myself,
      Hopefully with my writing this I can better understand life, and I'm quite grateful with the presence of my two small daughters were always there for me,      

Disappointed

                               "Disappointment"
Disappointment in life is always and inevitably present in our daily lives, disappointedwith the state, disappointed with all that we had hoped that culminate disappointmentin yourself, blame others or myself, disappointed with colleagues, or with a spousewas reasonable when we still can take very meaning of a disappointment.
     But sometimes due to the disappointment that has been stored too long in the liver, it will explode one day is like a time bomb just waiting for the right moment, because the betrayed spouse disappointed, disappointed because the person who cheated so we believe it's something that is very painful, 
sometimes we think if I was too stupid to survive and wait for something that is not bound by the reasons there is still stored there is little hope of the future, and believe that one day they were made ​​aware that we would be disappointed with the actions of others disappoint.

      Blaming life, blaming fate, without fixing lament that something is wrong, and simply said, "God if I am a patient and forgiving angel" but it is impossible because we are just ordinary people who were given the taste, hate, disappointment, and heartache ,yeah even though we always say to ourselves that maybe there is a plan behind all of God's most excellent, but when it's so long and we waited until our dead line, our hearts feel tired, bored, with all those games we trust , is not wrong for us to rebel and find another way out of the disappointment of all the.

 We're not the patient was an angel, not a God who is always to forgiven what they do,I'm sure you've felt the disappointment, dissatisfaction in life, like the proverbial smart people, "God will not change the fate of a man, except man himself has changed his own destiny .

     It's all about the story in my real life, I am a woman who probably when I reveal my true identity you will judge what I am, stupid woman, stupid and whatever it was, but I was like this is not without good reason, a thousand times I tried to believe or the pair, a thousand times I'm also disappointed, and arrived when his heart is already feeling tired with all the drama of life that others take it in my personal life,In most of us shed our angry feelings toward their children who do not understand anything, but this time I tried to write a letter for people who have disappointed me,without losing respect for their,    No matter how we try to let the anger and the belief that we have, "tackle the" past, we suffered emotional injuries and even worse health than affairs of the heart are still jammed,  

       Should not we keep a sense of disappointment was too long, while we can shed the sense of disappointment that the positive case, let us try to feel disappointed in our family, dared to write a letter and pour your disappointment due respect, Remember,"Jealousy sometimes is the most effective way to get rid of people who are deemed to be most important.

While we were disappointed because the betrayed spouse, knows what it's like, we wish it was splitting into two pairs, avenge all we've ever experienced, here I have sure fire way to dispel hatred sorry, I'm not sure, but I tried, "the mosteffective love letter that has three parts, as follows.

  1] Impingement anger and openness without breaking your partner, Instead of hoarding accusations on your spouse, expresikan was a sense of hurt and disappointment you in a way that most can be appreciated, the use of the statements "I," such as "I feel betrayed, I feel disappointed and safe,,,, "it means that you take responsibility for your own feelings, Avoid statement," You do it, "and most likely, your partner will feel less defensive and more willing to accept.

 2]The recognition that both of you can move forward from this incident, do not be afraid to admit that you somehow have contributed to the tension marriage and miscommunication that leads to infidelity. 
The problem is not to blame or accuse fatherly, but to learn what must be repaired to rebuild the love and trust in your relationship.

 3].Expression of love, trust, and intimacy, you do not need to pretend that you do not love their partners to punish him, the greater the fact you can express your tenderness, the easier your partner to know your pain, Forgiving does not mean forgetting, nor whiten what has happened, forgive is to let go, move on, and choose a positive thing.

        This the post i write for now soon i will write again, 

        God bless you All