This afternoon I went out with my daughter, was thinking for going buy some food for our diner, and was thinking for make her happy at weekend,because since her dad pass away,, Almost I never bring her anymore going out for just hang out, Just because i have no money extra like before,we rode the bike I borrowed from a neighbor, because our motors in use to go to work my oldest daughter,
With little hope I still have a little stash of money in my savings, just for buy somthing what would my little girl, but was really surprised and I felt a little sad, because it turns out my savings I could not take, even if it is only a minimum number__, ha ha,ha I was laugh with my girls and she said "Mom I don't want go inside the market if u have no money in ATM,, because I don't want to buy anything,,, But I know her well,, she could not say nothing if she want anything and she know I at hard time,,,
God__________ All I feel like shouting, God thank you with all of this, it turns out I still have a very valuable asset than money, She is a very pretty daughter who is always there beside me,
back again to the story, after my husband's death, He did not leave any for us, even for our children too, all of the assets ranging from homes, factories and businesses he's all taken over by his family, so for the sake of the survival of our lives, I mortgaged off all jewelry, I used to save and to think for the future as my daughter has been stepped up and I wanted to give it to them, but now it all gone,,
But, this way, come back I learned a new one that I could talk to my daughter "Darling, we are not poor because we do not have money" you see there are still many people who might be at this time they had no home and no money to just eat today, and you see today we still get through with us still able to eat enough, sleep in a soft bed, so we still have to be thankful and u still stay in good school, And until now i still can pay you school,Anyway until now i still not find any job,but i will never give up,because I know there,God plans more better than our scenario for our life,
While I was hitching a ride on a motorcycle, while I was with my girls, "Now Mom wanna asking you, trying thinking if life were really have no problems, everything is well, what is there in the shadows you? "She said of course tasty and without the burden of a very happy, yes it's natural response when people are asked to imagine life without problems, but it actually happened we do not learn anything, without kink and no maturity, no pride in anything in life because we never felt able to overcome,,
This article is certainly not at all to encourage you to making problem as much as possible, please study the following explanation,, and i was tell my daughter listen Mom,____
"There are two types of problems"
1),,The problem that had to happen, this is a problem that is outlined to happen, we would not be able to avoid it, no matter how great we are, the problem has been determined in the "blueprint" of life as should happen, like what has happened in the life of me, left alone husband without possessed savings, with I must persist in the environment are quite expensive and girls should still I maintain a private school, which is not an iota of relief to pay a monthly fee, and we as a widow there is no allowance for single parent in this country, including, from the family of my late husband, but I need to explain here, I write this clearly and frankly not to attract anyone sympathy,,
2),,Problems that occur because of made-up itself, these types of problems in the two____
_Problems that occur because we perform actions or decisions that are less precise, for example, using the money improperly, When the impact is experiencing financial difficulties, who is to blame?
Like life used to be, which can be quite and have never experienced the slightest financial shortage, and I myself often spend money unwisely, unnatural, memebeli something insignificant, and often we only buy goods for a new model and we do not wear it at all, almost every day of the week, we spent time hanging out at the mall, eating out, Oh if I remember back in those days and nine compared to the present,
But here I started to wake up, I once never thought that my life would change 180 degrees, From the start I was a waste of money if we overdo it, and now to buy food and I need to find yourself,,,, but God is fair first I had money in his wallet and 5 million compared to now I have 50 thousand rupiah, I feel rich with money of 50 thousand, than I have money of 5 million, would you ask why? It is clear the value of money so far between 5 million and 50 thousand rupiah, ok here I explain a little bit, used to be when I have money of 5 million whatever I could buy but that could be paid with the money, but I can not buy anything that can not be paid with money____
_Such is the case of her husband, changed the time of his presence with a sum of money which he thought without him, we would be happy to be enough money for us to spend shopping and sightseeing, so happiness is we can not buy from a pile of money he gave, so any can you buy with that money we can not call a treasure, okay why do I still feel rich with money of 50 thousand rupiah, but with that much money what can we buy let alone an age now, but I could have bought a smile my girls is happy and she could thank our current circumstances with a smile full of God,, I bow down to you,, thank you still made me realize, and you do not let me neglect,,And we can still be grateful, I was awakened when the time is not too late, I was given a chance to come back and believe that God exists, my Psalter, God give me strength, give people who care about the awareness that not everything can be bought with money, as the two men who had been present in my life, they think money, possessions that everything in life is, in fact refer to my late husband, when she was riding a success, God said, "Enough of your life ends up here" even he has not had enjoy the fruits of his toil, which she proud-proud of, and see in the end who enjoy the fruits of his labors,, others, even I as a wife I'm not going to enjoy his riches, but let all already set God,, and like I tell you about the "Mr. Right" he was equally ambition,, so that whatever he would do for his money, even if it hurt others (forgive their forgetfulness of God.
__An additional problem that occurs because we incorrectly take a position on issues that had to happen (the first problem) Suppose someone has a problem in the company or a job, a problem that had to happen to make up his maturity, this is exactly what happens to "Mr. Right" but he did not realize to avoid a run on the thought could solve the problem, although it is the same with the maturation process so that he could be more successful, but when he did not respond and perceive this problem in a positive way, what happened was a big disappointment and stress__This problem was brought to his house, he came home with an unhappy, finally pass on new problems, family problems to feel it,
Appearing again another problem, body aches, because of pikirna negative it certainly produces the body is not healthy, because blood flow to the brain sekakan clogged with their minds stress that, by failing to master the problem of the mind at the level of the soul, of here it is highly visible, appearing two additional masalh, due to lack of proper addressing, the first issue that had to happen
