Friday, July 25, 2014

Disappointed

                               "Disappointment"
Disappointment in life is always and inevitably present in our daily lives, disappointedwith the state, disappointed with all that we had hoped that culminate disappointmentin yourself, blame others or myself, disappointed with colleagues, or with a spousewas reasonable when we still can take very meaning of a disappointment.
     But sometimes due to the disappointment that has been stored too long in the liver, it will explode one day is like a time bomb just waiting for the right moment, because the betrayed spouse disappointed, disappointed because the person who cheated so we believe it's something that is very painful, 
sometimes we think if I was too stupid to survive and wait for something that is not bound by the reasons there is still stored there is little hope of the future, and believe that one day they were made ​​aware that we would be disappointed with the actions of others disappoint.
      Blaming life, blaming fate, without fixing lament that something is wrong, and simply said, "God if I am a patient and forgiving angel" but it is impossible because we are just ordinary people who were given the taste, hate, disappointment, and heartache ,yeah even though we always say to ourselves that maybe there is a plan behind all of God's most excellent, but when it's so long and we waited until our dead line, our hearts feel tired, bored, with all those games we trust , is not wrong for us to rebel and find another way out of the disappointment of all the.
 We're not the patient was an angel, not a God who is always to forgiven what they do,I'm sure you've felt the disappointment, dissatisfaction in life, like the proverbial smart people, "God will not change the fate of a man, except man himself has changed his own destiny .
     It's all about the story in my real life, I am a woman who probably when I reveal my true identity you will judge what I am, stupid woman, stupid and whatever it was, but I was like this is not without good reason, a thousand times I tried to believe or the pair, a thousand times I'm also disappointed, and arrived when his heart is already feeling tired with all the drama of life that others take it in my personal life,In most of us shed our angry feelings toward their children who do not understand anything, but this time I tried to write a letter for people who have disappointed me,without losing respect for their,    No matter how we try to let the anger and the belief that we have, "tackle the" past, we suffered emotional injuries and even worse health than affairs of the heart are still jammed,  
       Should not we keep a sense of disappointment was too long, while we can shed the sense of disappointment that the positive case, let us try to feel disappointed in our family, dared to write a letter and pour your disappointment due respect, Remember,"Jealousy sometimes is the most effective way to get rid of people who are deemed to be most important.
While we were disappointed because the betrayed spouseknows what it's likewe wish it was splitting into two pairsavenge all we've ever experiencedhere I have sure fire way to dispel hatred sorryI'm not sure, but I tried"the mosteffective love letter that has three parts, as follows.
  1] Impingement anger and openness without breaking your partner, Instead of hoarding accusations on your spouse, expresikan was a sense of hurt and disappointment you in a way that most can be appreciated, the use of the statements "I," such as "I feel betrayed, I feel disappointed and safe,,,, "it means that you take responsibility for your own feelings, Avoid statement," You do it, "and most likely, your partner will feel less defensive and more willing to accept.
 2]The recognition that both of you can move forward from this incident, do not be afraid to admit that you somehow have contributed to the tension marriage and miscommunication that leads to infidelity. 
The problem is not to blame or accuse fatherly, but to learn what must be repaired to rebuild the love and trust in your relationship.
 3].Expression of love, trust, and intimacy, you do not need to pretend that you do not love their partners to punish him, the greater the fact you can express your tenderness, the easier your partner to know your pain, Forgiving does not mean forgetting, nor whiten what has happened, forgive is to let go, move on, and choose a positive thing.
        This the post i write for now soon i will write again, 
        God bless you All