The second women

           "I'm not sure all women would be made in the second "
 The second woman, or more often mentioned by mistress,  I'm sure not all women are willing to become the second woman, but why there should be a second woman, that's my question for this,  Tells the story of two women, it's real and not just stories, personal experiences are also part of the experience I have outlined a friend,Today I went to a beauty salon with the aim to improve the shape of the visible hair disheveled, but there are not accidentally I met an old friend,that was just say hello and how are you, because it has been nearly two years we have not met, we ended up engaging conversations ranging from children to a private matter, and finally She tells her personal life which I think is extraordinary,She married a man who was married, She had thought all was happy for her parents, and sometimes cover up the shame that many of those around her, insulted that her age does not have a partner,then it was ignored and in 2006 there was a marriage between her and the man who was married,first She thought She could get married only after returning to work as before, but it turns out the husband to dismiss her and finally She just sits at home as the second woman,100% She realized that to be the second woman was too risky, much to her life, began to talk of the neighboring,
   and fear with his first wife, but what it all meant when her husband loved her, she says, Jass I already feel bored with all my husband's behavior, he just casually come and go, regardless of my feelings,I said, "you are need more patient and try to improve yourself and you should have more patience or courage to leave your husband at the same time it,but She says, "but I do not have anything to start a new life, and I'm still not ready," I said okay, if you actually like it should be better prepared for an all day affair will be exposed, painful indeed, I could feel what he experienced at this time, without feeling I myself participated in the story drift,why men are so selfish with no thought of two women who are hurt, he's willing to lie to and fro, it is not aware they did that, I believe 100% they are consciously and feel guilty, but all that they cover it with selfishness as a man,heard it all, makes me sick man, it feels like there is no man in this world, with no sense of why they can enslave a woman just because they have more money, the Lord of those who lost consciousness and give way to them, like I was a was still dark to choose the path of his future with no past bad,My past is quite painful, to this day I still can not accept all of me was the fact that men are the most hideous creatures, man is the devil in the form of humans, creatures that can destroy a woman to flirt,who knows when I can accept the presence of a man again after so long I felt this feeling die, I'm not sure God save somebody for me, like it was my friend, it really hurt to be the second woman, always have to accept the claim should not be more than what is given and must always say YES,What kind of life like that, life is always occupied by men because of lust, material, ahhh really sad when we as women, look at life there was really no choice, but I think life is a choice, what would you do and you are sure you will can, when you say life is not no choice I'm sure you will only ever be a second woman,,, and it's your choice___________

The Forgive

               "Forgiving someone who has hurt us is very difficult, but we'll forgive them feel much better"
I as an ordinary man who did not escape from doing wrong, but I'm also not the devil who is always wrong, or the angel who is always right, I'm sure all of mankind would never make a mistake in his life,
  I live in an environment that is quite nice, also with our neighbors care about each other so we are busy with their own business,  a lot of time I spent most of in my computer, because all that I have gathered on it, honestly I'm not hanging out with neighbors or friends,,everyday my activities only, the morning I took my daughter to school, go to the place of work, or I work at home with my computer until the night , talking with friends online, four times a week I was out of activities just for the sport and even then I always carry my daughter,in the gym, did a lot of women my age I am but I just simply say hello there I have never joined their activities,so I did not waste a lot of my time for girl talk is not only important, but it's always the problem came and went, without me knowing I have a neighbor who does not like me,,She exactly right before my house, but I never want to interfere their affairs especially I purposely wanted to know what their activities, but rather the day yesterday, I heard something that really makes me confused and could make me upset,
 She instigated and made ​​the issue, the rumor that I was a woman who does  like to tease they good husband, She spread rumors shit vilify me, while I myself never hang out with them,I feel angry at the time but only temporarily, eventually I realized maybe I've done wrong with the appearance or the way I greet me with them, and I'm quite bring myself to ask, "why do you hate me, She had no clear answer She just said, I hate women like you might some day you'll tease my husband,Oh,,, if when I was young I feel like slapping her face, I'm just saying, why are you so stupid not like the appearance and style of yours, "Miss even though you see I still alone and maybe you hear all of the failure of my marriage, not mean I would like to tease someone's husband,,In front of everyone She embarrassed me, makes me very insulted, but I'm glad I still have faith, maybe now you're bothered by critical self-confident, take a deep breath I finally did I leave those who would again forget who they was,,finally in the afternoon when I was doing my job again, my phone rang, and it's one of she friends and She said they would try to explain to my house to apologize for the misunderstanding they judge me, I said, no need to apologize to all of this is precisely the I feel very grateful,,because with all that you do to make my understand where I need more repair themselves, making me more and know who I was, that not everyone likes what we do, "but I have a bad carpenter, if you're feeling hurt my heart yes I can forgive but, their friendship but heavy for me start again, so I say live each of you do not need to bother to find fault with others,,Do not blame anyone else with all the failures that you get, because what you make it that you can, God will never forget to reply to all of what we do, no matter how small the sins that we do God will reward you well no matter how small we are doing good God will surely reward, you're the praying,,
     For me, the life that I live now more than happy enough, because the happiness that we will know how we would feel happy or not, it's simple life is all just a choice, I will not keep anger for the anger, hatred all my life the way it just closes to be happy, if you still hate me I will never force you to like me.Live with your own choice, do not rush to find fault with others, we can not judge anyone they are wrong, we have no right to punish someone else with his life choices, as I choose to own, although I'm quite happy to live without a man in my life for now, or a lover it was my choice, and one thing you must remember, we live not just stop there, the world is spinning, it is not impossible that one day what happened to me you will all,,
      so grateful and let me in my life do not ever bother me, because I do not care what you do, have great time God bless all, so to forgive people who have hurt us, it is a miracle, I feel better, Very good